The goal today is not to be another foodie blogger, though I love to cook, bake, and, often, I get to do those things in a social settings with family, friends, and acquaintances. I do want to talk about an aspect of nourishing our bodies along with our spirits and our lives, as in “Joie de vivre” (joy of living).
As a word collector, one of my favorites is conviviality, the quality of being friendly and lively or friendliness. Merriam-Webster takes a different approach in its meaning by connecting conviviality, specifically, to food and feasting in “good company.” Whatever the definition of conviviality, I love the concept, and I love engaging in the act of being convivial.
A few years ago, I went to a food science conference at the University of Arizona in Tucson. The focus of the conference was the Mediterranean Diet: Eating fresh, non-processed, omega rich foods and having a small amount of red wine each day. What I found to be the most intriguing was the emphasis on convivial eating: sharing food with family or friends and taking your dear, sweet time to allow slow, digestible consumption of food while enjoying each other’s company. The food scientists at this conference emphasized that the food choices play an important role in healthful eating, but went on to say that the slow, deliberate sharing of food and conversation is equally as important. It made me wonder if there is a word in the Italian vocabulary for “fast food”. I hope not. I can’t help but connote the notion of fast food with un-healthful eating.
The food writer, Michael Pollan said, “The shared meal elevates eating from a mechanical process of fueling our bodies to a ritual of family and community, from mere animal biology to an act of culture”. To that I think of the holiday meal that takes a full day to prepare, and most eat it in a matter of moments. Perhaps a healthier thing would be to take at least half of the preparation time for consuming the meal. So, if it takes 8 hours to prepare the meal, take 3-4 hours to eat it. Okay, that may be excessive! What if we took 2 hours to consume our holiday meal? It would certainly honor the hands that prepared it. In addition, the slow consumption of the meal would keep us from overeating, because our brains would know when we’re full sooner.
Opposite of convivial meal times is observing our grandchildren eating in the school lunch room. The students must consumer their meals in as few as 15 minutes. The lunchroom “monitors” highly discourage conversation as well. I know children are highly adaptable, but I can’t help but think that the daily school lunches may add some unnecessary stress to the developing mind and body. From all appearances, the children don’t seem to enjoy the process.
The Danish have the word “Hygge” (pr. Ooga or hee-gah). Likely the word from which we get “hug”, hygge is the feeling of coziness, fun, or contentment. The intimate setting of a small dinner party or an impromptu gathering with family or friends makes me think of hygge. One of my favorite places for that feeling of hygge is around the camp fire in the mountains or sitting with family or friends near a body of water. The word, “delicious” comes to mind.
The featured photo in today’s blog is that of my sister’s in-laws in Italy. My Sis is at the far end and cannot be seen from this vantage point. Please notice that the family is gathered around a table that seats 18. My sister tells me that the hostess prepares fresh mozzarella and bread every day. When I gaze at this photo, I think I can smell the flavorful food, and I marvel at the wine being poured from pitchers. Sis tells me that the meals there take two to three hours to consume; even when everyone at table does not speak the same languages.
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